Twenty First Century Ageing

One hundred years ago life expectancy in the United Kingdom was 53 years for women and 50 years for men. Improvements in sanitation, diet, housing, medical care and education have led to an increased life expectancy in the United Kingdom of 83 years for women and 79 years for men (ONS figures for 2017). These figures are averaged across the country, class and income and there are wide differences between the poorest and the richest members of the population but overall there has been a massive extension to our lives compared to 1920.

Many people in the developed world are experiencing relatively healthy and mobile lives well past the end of conventional Western retirement from employment. We, personally and as a society, would do well to re-frame our view of the ageing process and also re-evaluate attitudes to older citizens who often have a lot of experience, time and energy to offer our communities.

the Joy of Ageing Footpath picture

To grow old is a privilege, elderhood has the potential to be a source of great joy and an opportunity for us to grow as human beings. To grow old is to be very lucky, many people in this country and abroad do not have that luck. Wars, poverty, disease and lifestyle can all lead to shortened existences. Those of us growing old are deeply privileged and perhaps we have a sacred duty to share the joy to be found as we age. Can we possibly approach the journey to the end of life with joyful acceptance as opposed to resignation and without resentment or bitterness? Can we leave this beautiful world not with a whimper or a bang but with equanimity? Can we also be an example to each other and to those following us?

The industrial revolution and the resulting social dominance of the profit motive and consumerism has led to the denigration of older folk for no longer being units of production. This has led to ingrained predjuice which resides in all levels of our society to the extent that even we who are no longer so young have negitive views about growing old. We need to find new ways to empower older people and not treat them as if they were of no use to society, merely a costly burden. So, there's a lot of work to be done and plenty of us to do it!

There is a growing movement, both in Europe and the USA, that is exploring ways to reintroduce the role of the elder who for countless generations was an essential part of how we humans organised ourselves, bringing experience and wisdom to the business of living together in a manner that respected and honoured our planet. We need those roles more than ever today.

My aim here is to explore how our thoughts, feelings, attitudes, habits and behaviour can all be turned towards living in a way that brings joy and enthusiasm to our lives and the lives of those we come into contact with.

Like our own selves, this site is an evolving process and will grow as ideas develop. For useful links and details of workshops, retreats and trainings please check out the resources page.

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The Joy of Ageing Picture of Charlie Ivermee
After many years of exploration through counselling and psychotherapy, both as client and practitioner, I came to mindfulness in 2016 and have had a regular meditation practice since. Before retiring from paid employment at the age of 71 I had a long career in the electronics industry. Since leaving employment I have volunteered in various sectors and am currently a residential volunteer coordinator at the Barn Retreat Centre situated on the Sharpham estate in Devon where I co-facilitate week long retreats based on meditation, community and the land.
I have come to see how important being in community is to our wellbeing at all ages and particularly in later life. I am excited by how curiosity, reflection and a mindful approach to our ageing can lead to a wisdom that enhances daily life and can help us work with difficulties and increase our joy at being alive. I have a deep interest in the process of ageing and in how we can make that a joyful and rewarding journey.

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The Web Site

I did some work on my daughter's website The Voice Box and was impressed by it's uncluttered style and the use of lots of white space. So I decided to create something similar for the Joy of Ageing.

I have been creating websites since 1998 and for over a decade created a site and on-line community that caused some mild sensation in it's day including originating the cooking an egg with two mobile phones myth which went viral and ended up in the New York Times and Daily Mail print editions (my fifteen minutes).

BlueFish HTML editor logo
For this site I have relied on the excellent open source Bluefish HTML editor which I have been using for a good few years. This is an uncluttered editor that does not get in the way or encourage the use of flashy gizmos. There's a detailed review here

Recent Site Updates:
9th July: New blog entry: Forgetting and Remembering
28th June: Another blog entry: Intimations of Mortality
27th June: New blog entry: Challenging Perception
18th June: Books added to resouces Books and Videos section
18th June: New Combating Ageism section added to Resources in Age section
15th June: New blog entry: Barn Home Retreats
15th June: Moved update info to about page
9th June: New blog entry: Regret and Remorse
23rd May: New blog entry: Dream Time
22nd May: New article by Guy Robertson author of The Ten Steps of Positive Ageing.
17th May: 'In the news' section added to homepage.
10th May: New blog entry: Meaning and Purpose.
3rd May: New blog entry and April's blog archieved with link on blog home page.
1st May: Articles rearranged so that each one has it's own page, gallery updated
April 30h: added article "Joyful Acceptance of Ageing" by Jane Bennett
and also links to ageism articles on resources front page.
April 26th: Added email address image to contact page
April 26th: Two items added to Ageism in this time of Covid-19 section
April 24th: Blog and gallery updated
April 24th: I Never Saw it Coming Until it Was Here, an article by Charlie Ivermee
April 21st: Blog updated.
April 19th: Blog updated.
April 17th: Joy of Ageing FaceBook group created: here.
April 16th: Blog updated. More links added.
April 12th: Section on Ageism added to Resources front page. Blog updated.

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